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An excerpt from the book, Love Unveiled by Alima Ashfaq.
Mekka is a hard, dry land - Much like this, men are generally dry and don’t know how to cry. If they do, they don’t want to show it and instead keep all the pain within them under the guise of masculinity.
Medina is soft, with water flowing beneath it and the rain is consistent throughout its seasons - Which reflects women who can easily cry and they’re not scared to show their emotions. In fact, under the guise of femininity they display their emotions regularly.
Mekka has a harsh climate; it’s rough and known to be a mountainous area - Men’s beauty lies in their masculinity, power strength and ruggedness. This is what makes them attractive and allows them to lead effectively.
Medina is lush, full of splendour and serenity - Women are known to be peaceful, full of serenity and their femininity makes them beautiful.
Mekka’s main emotion is `izzah, they are full of honour and will do anything to protect it. They like to be respected and acknowledged, this is what motivates them to excel as individuals.
Medina is full of sukoon, the people are known for their softness. Women are generally more loving and caring; they’re soft by nature and will generally give more than they receive.
Differences in Qur’anic verses:
Mekkan verses are short, straight to the point and general.
Medinan verses are long, detailed and at times they keep going on and on.
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The word “shams” (sun) is feminine, and “qamar” (moon) is masculine.
The sun burns itself out to give light and life to everything around, and
the moon is muneer, meaning it reflects the light. Within itself it has no
light; it radiates the brilliance of the sun. So when we shine as men, the
implication is that we are reflecting the glorious light of our women. May
Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’aala be pleased with them.
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What’s the worst thing you can call a woman? Don’t hold back, now. You’re probably thinking of words like slut, whore, bitch, cunt (I told you not to hold back!), skank. Okay, now, what are the worst things you can call a guy? Fag, girl, bitch, pussy. I’ve even heard the term ‘mangina.’ Notice anything? The worst thing you can call a girl is a girl. The worst thing you can call a guy is a girl. Being a woman is the ultimate insult. Now tell me that’s not royally fucked up.
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- A man that can not provide for you.
- A man that is not Muslim.
- A man that does not pray.
- A man that is not capable of loving you.
- A man that is not a man.
- A man whose character and deen do not please you.
- A man who does not love you for the sake of Allah, rather loves to show you off and for you to reveal your beauty to other men.
…ikhtilaaf?
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Literal: She who trusts men is one who carries water in a riddle.
This proverb basically advises women not to trust men!
OH YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW TRUE IS THIS PEOPLE!
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